WOMEN HOW TO INCORPORATE EIGHT GREAT BODY LANGUAGE TIPS INTO YOUR DATING LIFE
Women use their body language every day in social interactions with both men and women. Learning to use the appropriate body language at the appropriate time will help you attract or ward off those that you want or do not want. Keying in on ways to use your nonverbal communication will enhance the probabilities of finding the man that you want.
1. Using your facial expressions to let men know that you're interested. Initiate an expression of interest, first through eye contact. Stare at him, warning his general direction to let him know that you are interested. What she had made eye contact let him know that you are embarrassed to get caught at watching him by lowering your eyes from head to toe, and then smiling. He will absolutely understand that you are interested in him in if you would like to take it a step farther, smiling at him with your lips parted and gaze into his eyes.
If you sense a man or make eye contact with a man that is doing the same to you and you are not interested. Avoid eye contact. If he continues to stare do not look in his direction. Do not fluff your hair or make others gestures that would suggest that you may be interested. If you're in a conversation stick to the conversation and avoid looking in his direction at all.
2. Unfortunately, you will never get a second chance at first impressions, hence the term first impressions. When venturing out, wherever it be the grocery store, just stopping to get gas, or any place out in public. You should do your best to look your best. This does not mean you should dress like a supermodel everywhere you go, however in many cases, slipping down to the grocery store to buy some needed spices for the evening diner in sweat pants with no makeup on is not going to provide a great impression.
3. Maintaining approachable vibe expressions through proper body and facial posture assume a posture that seems open. By keeping your hands on your side's and smiling will present yourself as being friendly and open to communication. This will encourage men to approach you and start conversations. Once a man has approached and started a conversation you should then lean or position your body towards him during the conversation.
4. Using your hands and body gestures to show interest. By caressing objects or twiddling your hair or rubbing your glasses you present your self as being interested. For the man, this may create a sensual offer allowing him to approach you with success and ease.
5. Teasing is out of the question. If you have drawn the man to you, and expressed interest through various postures and gestures do not tease him. If you do not intend to follow through with any plan, after he has approached then you're just playing with fire.
6. Over indulging will turn men off. If you smoke, try to do this modestly the same goes for drinking. Overindulgence will more than likely put Mr. Right off and you will never get a second chance.
7. Do not over Chase. You have singled out your prey in a social gathering, a man that you are interested in. You have used all the techniques of body language, eye contact to let him know your interested. He has smiled back or nodded or made some other gesture confirming his knowledge of your interest. Don't chase him. If he is otherwise interested he will come to you. If he does not, you may need to look somewhere else.
8. Project confidence. You need to project confidence in your everyday walk and stature. Men are attracted to self-confident women, and a slouch or unconfident woman will put men off. |
