Are You Waiting for Him to Call? Don't!
The reality is men have the upper hand when it come to the first phone calleven though it's a 21st-century, and women are running Fortune 500 companies.
Instead a sit around on your duff trading baby names and waiting for your phone to ring, try these tactics instead:
1. If you meet him on Saturday night, don't expect them to call by Sunday. If he doesn't call by Monday, then you may start to worry. But don't start worrying about what will happen or won't happen on your first date, where you will go and what you will eat. In the initial phase of contact, your hopes should be high, but your expectations should stay low.
2. In order to keep from dwelling on his phone call state is a period. Get out and do something hang out with your friends go shopping. Fill your calendar up contact your friends, plan parties plan where to go and what to do getting the best out of every day. By keeping a full schedule you keep your mind off of the occupation, and you never know, you may meet another Mr. Right by staying occupied.
3. Do you often sit at home with a bowl of ice cream waiting for him to call? Do you often wonder if he lost your phone number, or if you wrote your phone number correctly? Don't! Get up, and go do something. Instead of eating ice cream go for run. By keeping you distracted, and not overanalyzing the situation. You'll keep an upbeat and positive attitude.
4. What are you still doing at home? He could be Mr. Right, or he could be Mr. Never Again, this is the early stages there is no sense in trusting a guy before he’s had time to prove himself. He has not even called. So while you're waiting for his call, get out there and hustle some more muscle. It's great if a friend has somebody to set you up with or you meet somebody running in the park.
5. Remember, you had a life before this guy got your phone number. Don't sit around on a weekend waiting. When you could be out having a great time, it's often the case that men may want a weekend date. But you can not always be there for just the weekend. So don't wait.
6. If you start analyzing something that's never been. You'll probably find yourself on an ice cream binge. The fact is it doesn't matter why he hasn't called. You don't need to analyze it. This is somebody who only has your phone number and has not made a commitment to nothing else. So hang in there but don't overanalyze. More importantly, don't cut your options short by passing up opportunities waiting for a phone call.
7. It is a 21st-century and in some cases may be the guy would rather you call or take the first step. Keeping that in mind, if you'd exchanged phone numbers and you where clever enough to get his call him up and ask him out to coffee. If he seems to stutter along the way or has a hard time connecting who you are, and at least you know, he probably never intended to call.
To sum it up, if you sit around waiting for every guy you give your phone number to. You'll run out of energy and ability to keep your focus in attracting Mr. Right. These tips will help to eliminate those that are just wasting your time. |
